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Gem #13
Build Bridges, Not
Walls and Detours by Hal Ornstein DPM, FACFAS
and Lynn Homisak, PRT
On a typical day within our offices we are
challenged with several situations which are quite trying. As
hard as we try, there is that patient or two on our schedule who seems
to cast a dark cloud over the once-sunny day. Sometimes it feels
like there is just not enough oxygen in your office to take that
colloquial “deep breath” when they enter the office.
Nevertheless, why do we allow them to have such control over our
psychological destiny?
We play a game in our office with these “callous” patients who
each seem to wake up waiting to make others in their world miserable.
The rules are quite simple: make this patient smile first and you win.
It is quite entertaining and we are always amazed how nice these
patients become when you do not swing back at them. They are
just looking to pick a fight, which helps them to feel that they are
superior and in control. Give them something to chew into and by
all means it may be a piece of you. Our goal is to gain a
win-win situation for the patient, staff, doctor and all the other
patients observing.
Our moms, who always were able to bring sunshine to rainy days, taught
us that to best survive in our often-tumultuous world we should
remember that “we should not step on the toes connected to the
buttocks that we may one day need to kiss”. Harry Truman
summed it up well when stating, “When given lemons make lemonade”.
Take control by letting go of it!
More to come................
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